My bff is kinda rude about me wanting to get top surgery? I love her and i'd die for this girl, but she won't see this from my pov. she wants a bigger chest, and thats fine like i'm supportive of her and i understand that she'd feel more confident with a bigger chest. but i try to explain that most clothes look gross on me because they're designed for either flat chests or smaller sizes. how everything i wear is sexualised. i wear a cute dress that has a lower neckline and suddenly my cleavage is showing and i feel like a slut. her responses are aways "You don't know how good you have it" or "idk why you want to get them cut off, you don't understand how bad it is being flat" its awful because she's my bff but i kinda hope she feels how i feel when she gets implants and hates it. I DO? i get it, i swear. but i don't judge her for wanting to change herself to feel more confident, so why does she have to judge me? it's my body? and ik its awful because she's my bff but sometimes