im tired of putting effort in and getting little back. but im just getting tired like i sat listening to my friend and she was going on about this argument at work and im just sat listening thinking wow you sound awful like thats a really bad way to behave?? it happened with a group chat we were in and these two friends were just being awful on it and i read it like do i actually like align with you and want to be associated with you? and then they just let me down?? im starting to get to the point where im sat being frustated like why cant people get it together and work on themselves?? one friend with so much anxiety she cant just get in the fucking car and go for dinner and another friend so adhd she cant reply to a text about plans for tomorrow like why the fuck aren't you working on yourselves and being fucking functional members of society????? like or even just to be like decent fucking frineds? i don't think its excuses i think they;re just not good friends???