bro my father will use anything against me. my attempt, somehow I'm in the wrong, and he is the one who is messed up for "life". its not cool. I know I've never had a relationship with him but he will use anything. And I mean anything. Honestly? It hurts MY feelings. Why? Because it will be something so small, turned into something so big. And I cry trying to talk about my feelings. And he is like the one who is messed. Lord. I hate everything.