I've been married for 9 plus years, my husband has stated he's unhappy, hates coming home, says he's tierd from trying to work things out (mainly because I feel like he doesn't really love me beacuse , he tunred off his location, doesnt text me throughout the day like before, doesnt tell me what is actually happening throughout his day anymore, pulls away, doesnt kiss me like before, doesnt wanna cuddle me, or be near me anymore , let alone do anything with me) , so hes tierd of me argueing and bringing up my emotions and how im feeling, when he hates coming home, feels like he has to be on eggshells because of me, he says hes exhuasted of me, i found out he was having an emotional affair with another women, and he said he never did anything physical, but it still fucking hurt, and now hes gone, he left the house, didnt ask for divorce and told me he still loves, me but doesnt know if he wants to stay with me or not. wants me to focus on school while he focus on himself. idk wat to do