I am surrounded by doubt planters. It’s always “make a decision” and as soon as I do it’s “are you sure” “have you thought it through” ugh. No wonder I don’t trust myself. Every decision I make is doubted but then the same people get annoyed at me for becoming indecisive. I used to be somewhat independent and proactive but now I feel dependent on other peoples approval because of all their queries about “what if” for every single thing I decide.