Pt 1: Seems like this year has been the roughest one I have had. I, 31F, can’t seem to get it right this year. Let me start by this. I’m no saint. At the start of this year I had relationship issues that lead me to have an affair. Me & my partner are still working through it all since she forgave me & made us realized that we both were not putting in the effort we needed to that drive us apart. Then my partner had a bad allergic reaction to a nerve blocker causing her to be paralyzed. Her job fire her because they didn’t wana pay disability. Yes I already know that’s illegal because she was there the correct amount of time & paying into it. Because of her not being able to trust me from the affair, my partner decided it was best for her to move to a small apartment that she could afford on disability. We figured out finances & found we would be able to afford both so we did it.