I don't know how to handle my mother and I'm not sure if I'm in the right. My mum is okay, but I'm a 23 year old woman who is desperate to flea the nest and build my own life, hoping for a partner and kids. We live in a apartman and she constantly tries to rope me into her ideas. Like she comes to me today and is like " once you get a job we should collect money together to buy another apartamnt". Which is fine I guess but I'm like. Can somethings NOT involve you? I just have a need to pave my own way and not really be under her skirt and all. But idk I'd I'm being irrational. Like. She's just trying to hell and all and when would move out probably. But still I get the Ick of her roping me into stuff all the time. I think I'm just resentful that she relays on me , like why can't I rely on YOU. I just get an ick of her not having her life figure out like, I don't want to be an equal. Aita?