my parents keep arguing about closing down their business and divorcing. what am i supposed to do?? yes i’m 19 and technically a legal adult but it’s not like i can escape by working since i haven’t secured a job, and i dont even have a place to live in my area since rent is expensive. a part of me wants to go into council housing just so i can escape from all the noise, but knowing that my sister knows what they’re arguing about makes me upset. i dont want anyone to argue, i dont want anyone’s feelings getting hurt, but all my parents do is argue all night while i listen hearing every single word about how much my mum hates being in the house and hates my dad. a part of my wants to understand the whole situation, and i did hear something about my dad cheating but even then i’m not entirely sure. i really want to believe my dad isn’t the type of man to do that, but i feel like it’s actually reality. im not sure what kind of reality i’m living in, but i don’t like it at all