My boyfriend always gets upset when i want to have alone time just for a day and we are a long distance relationship and whenever i try to make friends he gets upset and says im going to enjoy hanging out with them more than him. and it just frustrates me because he also has friends he hangs out with and it's like when i try to do that its suddenly a problem and it just feels unfair. I love him and i don't want to make him upset and he treats me so well & spoils me but it's just why can't i do anything and he can? I'd tried talking to him about it but he gets upset about that too so at this point i just stay silent about my problems.