I love my current partner. But theyre not the same as my ex of 5 years, yeah I know that 2 people will never be the same but its just like. They're so reliant on their mother that to me I just feel they can't do anything!! They're scared of change, and they fear the fear theyre having?! I try to understand!! They dont understand my pov of life and it frustrates me AND then in top of that I can say one small stupid ass thing and suddenly theyre butthurt!! We're both 22. But they've not gone to college nor thought of it.. been saying they want their car and license for the past 3 YEARS AND NOTHING!!! They wanna go out. (They dont.) They still live with their mom (in this economy sure I get it.) But when I say something its just a "yeah.." and that's it!! Ive graduated. I have my license. I live alone!!! Ive paid for myself since I was 18. I dont understand.. Just some days I feel like Im the problem, then other days I just wonder how they can stomach being utterly content doing not shit