I'm currently the breadwinner in the family. I agreed, actually decided to move out from my father's premises because he keeps hurting mom. I'm worried of course and for the well being of my brothers. But lately she's been all focused on mooning over my father, I told her it's also her decision to move out. She keeps scaring us that if we don't we'll end up dead. At first her rants about my dad was understandable. She's grieving, they been together for years but it's been months and I grew tired of it especially when she's also bringing up the rumored mistress (which in fact she doesn't have an evidence moreover my father keep giving her signs or pushing her. I told her to start a new life with us but she keeps bugging me and every time she talks about it her mood changes and also affects us.