My cousin is going though a hard childhood. I know that. But him and everyone keeps invalidating my problems. I told him to stop playing with my legos like that. And he keeps on. I get agitated. And tell himvyo listen to me. His hands r sticky. He sucks his thumb. Its annoying. Its a mirical i even let him play with them sometimes. I told him ti stol told him that i didnt like that. I was a bit loud tho. Then he pulled out the no on loves me card. I had to confort him and apologize. My dad sometimes says if thats my problem then i have none to some of my disconforts. I dont really agree with that. Now my cousins back to listening to decendants. His excuse is always " you dont cobtrol my actions" or " i cobrrol my body" but when i pull the card on him he breaks down. If he saw this he would prb pull out the noone loves me card. I get hes not in good cobditions rn imo. But that dosent mean thatcmycfeelings dont matter. Right