My friend has no backbone and it's genuinely starting to drive me insane. She constantly complains about her life situations but does nothing to fix it at all. I constantly try to help or give advice and she never listens to me, then comes back with how much her life sucks. I feel like I'm going insane. She's constantly cowering in fear of her parents even though its literally fucking killing her slowly. I don't know what to do anymore because she's my best friend but its getting to the point I dont know how to handle this anymore. She works herself half to death but when i tell her to just request a day off she tells me no because it would upset her parents. I tell her to get this thing for herself she says no because it would upset her parents. i get that trauma is a real fucking thing but she's so helpless sometimes it makes me mad and I feel like shit for it. because i care so much about her but I cant do anything if she doesn't stand up for herself for once