also god dammit maybe i am jealous but why the hell would i have gotten married if i wanted to destroy it and everyone around me. i’m offended every time she says something that reveals she doesn’t trust me or him. no matter what she says i think she believes im someone who would do that, break my husbands heart and hers and his and mine. i’ve been friends for 13 years with her and that realization is the worst part. she doesn’t trust me she doesn’t know me and it’s affecting my relationship with everyone around her