I feel like my mom is being so INCREDIBLY nitpicky about how i want to spend my summer break. I'm 17 and have been having issues finding a job but am still looking and trying to find one. She wants me to be constantly out trying to find jobs and volunteer oppurtunities and no places seem to want to accept me. The issue is that even though i am trying to find a productive way to spend my summer she thinks that even the slightest bit of me doing what i want is terrible and that i'm a lazy asshole that wants to do nothing in life. she made me write a schedule of what i'm going to do each week, while trying to put productive things in like asking about volunteer oppurtunities. I'm fine with that but she thinks that i need to be doing work work work EVERY SECOND OF EVERY DAY and that even the smallest bit of time to myself is lazy. she doesn't seem to understand that summer "break" is time to destress from a busy school year. IM GOING INTO GRADE 12 GIVE ME A BREAK!!!