I feel like I’m constantly banging my head against a brick wall. After 11 years with my partner, I get these fleeting thoughts of leaving him. We both acknowledge that all we seem to do these days is argue. It’s usually over household chores or daily family admin, and I get the feeling that he probably wants to leave me too. I am still in love with him but his stubbornness, negativity, poor communication and overall lack of enthusiasm or interest in doing much as a family (we have a 3 y/o) is starting to seriously wear me down. We make up and then 2 days later ore arguing.