my wife pisses me off to no end, she's been layed off since January, I know it's not her fault, I care, I really do, but the lack of acting like she doesn't need to help out around the house was bad when she had a job, now she doesn't and it's even worse, today was her birthday, I get it, but I wouldn't invite a friend over to stay the night without making sure the house is clean, I get home from work in a good mood happy for her birthday, but her friend is here with her ready to hang out and spend the night, only no one has cleaned the house or cleaned the spare bedroom which was full of junk, she said she'd clean it, but they were about to watch a movie, I said I would do it despite I'm tired from work and wanting to spend time with my wife and child, now her friend is here, spending the night, the room is a mess, oh and with all that she hasn't had sex with me in 2 months since she lost her job, I'm beyond frustrated. I try to be kind, loving, and all that, im just frustrated