I can't help but feel upset because I had an operation on Monday and my partner has had his own medical problem going on which has now completely overshadowed mine. I'm just feeling a bit unsupported but also guilty because I know he was worried about his scan but I could do with some care too. I just feel like my operation has become something totally insignificant in the scheme of things and it's not a great feeling. I've been waiting for this for nearly 3 years so I just feel I deserve a little bit of TLC. I don't want to seem unfeeling and of course I've been concerned about him. It's just that it now feels like we're in some weird competition and his problem is now bigger than mine when the reality is they're just different. I'm just feeling a bit sad about it all.