I love my boyfriend I do, but I'm getting tired of feeling like I'm the second option in our relationship. I've asked for affection, nothing major just an occasional "I love you" or a "hey baby I miss you" I used to even do this myself without love bombing and he reciprocated but now that it's been a year it's like- nothing. And when i speak about wanting the little stuff the only thing I get is that "I don't know what the little stuff is" I've been telling him over and over I'd like to actually spend time, talk, game, even watch stuff but nothing. It's like unless I start it nothing will happen and i don't know what to do.
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