I love my dad, I really do. But he’s got a couple of things that make him such an asshole. And it’s those things that make me realize that despite being a single parent with a daughter, he’s still got misogynistic views. And if you call these out, it turns into a full out screaming match. Or he’s good at dropping his opinion where it wasn’t asked or needed. And upon saying to stop this, he turns into a rude individual. It’s so annoying and it gets me so heated. We’ve had so many full out screaming matches that end up with me in tears because I’m so frustrated. I’m not crying from sadness but anger. Then I can’t get my words out. And like any classic parent, somehow finds a space to interrupt and guilt trip. Or threatening to throw my stuff out. And part of me feels he’s so angry enough sometimes that he might. But then the next day pretends like nothing happened. Apologies don’t exist here. It saddens me because he was my hero growing up.