I’m so sick of men not having any fucking initiative. Literally they’re like ogres who need to be told what to do. Don’t get me wrong, they can be motivated as hell, but god fucking forbid they have to do something without being told to do it. Sounds small but holy shit, replacing the brita filter, switching out the dish sponge, scooping the litter box, etc takes me reminding them, and normally I just end up doing it myself because they get all fucking huffy when I ask. It’s infuriating and I’m blaming all men because it’s not just the two that I live with, it’s literally every man I have ever lived with. I’m so tired of it. Why can’t they just fucking set reminders or something like a fucking adult.