I don't like the other person my fam becomes when they're drunk. A mean raging mouthy monster. Scaring the dog, trashing us, then claiming they don't remember it when it's over or just pieces and not wanting to talk about it LIKE IT DIDN'T HAPPEN INVALIDATING HOW I FEEL. I dont need a therapist I need the bull crap to stop. I really don't understand what get out of getting that way. Literally flop face face down on a table. Oh yeah that looks REAL fun (sarcasm in case you can't tell). Other times they'll try to validate their behavior by going "you knew I was a drunk when you married me". That doesn't excuse anything smh. No they didn't know they were a drunk that I recall. A partier yes but not like this. Not a raging verbally abusive sometimes physically threatening monster. Kinda like the dr jekyl Mr Hyde story. I want away from this crap so bad. Other family knows what I've gone through been through, they don't care though. Stuck on selfie mode basically. Who needs enemies withthem