I love my partner but i feel like i always have to be the mature one. i can try to communicate about how im hurt but they end up venting and freaking out about not being able to comfort or be a good partner. i feel like i cant tell them small things that upset me because theyll beat themselves up about it. we both struggle with depression and i dont want to make things worse for them. i just want to be the messy one sometimes ig i cant always be the one taking care of them
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