I relate with a post. I won't go into specifics but yeah I can't stand my dad as well. They've harmed me in more ways than I care to say. Some things i can let go some not so much. Not sure how you forgive some things. Because it's they're fault and nobody else's that I'm fairly numb to them. Theyve called me everything in the book you can think of that's bad. So yeah that parts on him , not me. He will swear up n down a lot of it was because he was drunk n don't remember. Really? I do though yet he never wants to speak of how his behavior is drunk. Ok. Like it didn't happen? I don't think so.