My cousin, my best friend in the whole world mind you for 7 years after she moved here, left me for her boyfriend. She claimed we "grew apart" and that the 5 months she holds over me mean so much. She left 7 years behind for a boy. I never had many friends. She was my only true one. And she left me. I finally found another new friend after nearly a year. It took a while but we found something we both bonded over and insantly became best friends. We laughed every day. Then i started having to wait for a good day to come or else shed treat me like shit. But i understood why. She had her reasons to be angry. But why take it out on me? Then guess what happened! She met a boy. She wanted all my advice and i gave it. It was fun at first but now her whole belief system relies entirely on his opinion despite the fact that they have met in person once. Suddenly im embarrassing. She didnt tell me that clearly but its obvious. Shes stopped talking to me unless i message. I cant do this again.