I think im in an emotionally abusive relationship. We have been together for over 10 years but for whatever reason i didnt see it. Now, I dont even know if I belive that its the situation. My friends say thats the case, but ive also had to cut off my friends bc theyre a "bad influence". Ive had to cut off social media, it have no job, I habe to ask permission to leave bc the neighborhood is too dangeruous. And then the things he says. I try to think the best, but I know some of these things just wont fly. He only sees the negitive and spirals. Oh and his constant sexist comments. Openly harsh and degrading twords woman.... we have a daughter... I was crying in the closet one day and when she asked him whats wrong, he said "I dont care"... and then he tells me he loves me... then turns around and says I complain too much. Uhm... yeah, im somewhat lactose, and i never ask for help, so the one day I do he cant just do the dishes? I want to talk to somone, w/o being scared of him...