I had a pretty good childhood, and as an adult I live with someone who talks sexually about when I was a child when I just want to hold onto memories that were special to me, and not being shamed for what ever sloppy habits I had while getting potty trained, or taking a bath, or getting changed by my parents in the bedrooms. I only like the times in my childhood where I was being hugged by my parents, visiting my grandparents and cousins at my aunt's house, looking for bugs under rocks, doodling dinosaurs horribly, the wholesome moments. The person fetishizing my childhood and being very creepy about it before I even hit two digits didn't have a good childhood, and I'll never exploit what happened due to respect and never wanting to scorn her childhood. I don't know why she's using it as an excuse to sexualize my childhood though. I keep my childhood to myself and I don't know what made her start getting the way she has about it.