Getting a bit sick of "compromising" with other autistic people and just doing things their way while I struggle to adapt and my needs are totally ignored. "But I'm autistic I need it done this way" and I'm autistic and I can't do it that way! It's too warm in here for you... so we both now have to go and stand outside in the freezing cold while I am in sensory hell because the cold is unbearable. You have to sleep with the light on... so I get no sleep because I can't sleep with the light on We have to video call at 5am because you're always up and awake at that time... well I'm not, it takes me ages to wake up enough to function, or even get out of bed. Idk how much autism has to do with this but it's always what gets brought up when I try to compromise with my own needs... as if I'm not autistic too.