The dude who groomed me has a girlfriend now. About 98% of the time, I like to forget he exists, and that era of my life never happened. However, it hits me like a fucking truck sometimes. I feel guilty I never could do anything about it. But what sucks is the state it happened, the age I was is considered legal. I passed the age he was when he started grooming me, and when I worked food service the teenagers were like literal kids. Made my heart drop to the floor like cement when I realized his perspective. There is a genuine hole in my chest, and I always worry he is, or was, doing it to other kids. He's also got a thing for cheating, SO. I don't know if I should find a way to warn this woman. For a lot of reasons, I worry she might not even give a fuck too. But I would understand, I'm a stranger. It just pisses me off. Any other ways to do something would be appreciated. Or talk sense into me, tell me anything is a terrible idea. Realistically. Fuck.