I had this “friend” and now I feel like shes going to haunt me for the rest of my life. It’s started with little things like “wow ur so pale”, “ur so skinny, you look like a Victorian child”. Little comments that I didn't look at too much. Then one day we’re hanging out in science and go out for a fire drill. They see one of her friends and start talking to them, I stay away because it’s not my convo. Her friend says something to them abt their chest (which was untrue and meant as a joke but I admit that I should’ve defended her then. Joke or not). Then she IMMEDIATELY goes to say “at least I’m not like (my name)”. Now HER friend is defending me, and I just like “what the fuck”. Her friend saw me on the verge of tears in the field later that day and tried to make me laugh. We’re friends now. But now every time I see my ex friend in public I feel angry or like I’m abt to cry. I think we moved schools so thank god.