If you're going to vent to others about something, don't turn right around and defend those you're complaining about when others are only trying to support you in it. What sense does that even make? That's like or is invalidating somebody's support of you. Which makes 0 sense. It's bad enough my own family want to always defend the other person when Im going on about stuff. Like who needs a prosecutor when your family is practically being that. Like it feels like if somebody hit me for no reason in public my family would just say oh they were just having a bad day🙄. Literally how they act almost. And of course they'll deny it but they do. If I wanted the other person who's pissing me off to be defended I'd get someone else to take up for them. Like why do I deal with the most effed up stuff? Why does everyone around me want to invalidate me that makes 0 sense too. Sigh I'm over this as well.