I am annoyed at my friend because she upset me first but I end up feeling guilty for being angry at her because she’s crying. I also cried but I just laughed it off because that’s how I was raised. My feelings don’t matter so I thought it was normal for a while but I got angry at myself for feeling guilty even though it wasn’t my fault. I hate how some people can just cry and make people guilty for something they didn’t even do and manages to make them apologize.