ive been talking to someone since febuary and i initially cut things off because i was so scared. we gave it another shot and it was like nothing had ever changed. we planned for him to come up this weekend and i finally felt like i had released that avoidance. but now he is going through something unavoidable and it is not his fault at all, but i just feel like i constantly get thrown curveballs and nothing ever just goes smoothly. we are kind of in this ultimatium of going full send or staying as friends see where things go as he goes through this rough patch of life. but i genuinely cannot do that i become so attached and i told him i would have to go no contact which he understood. i really do want it to work though and i just don't know what to do or what to say. ive never had this feeling before and i wish i could be someone who easily moves on but i will probably think about him for the next two years if nothing happens between us and i let it go. idk im so conflicted and upset