I don't think the right kind of love is the one where they've become your whole world . To me that's super unhealthy and idk why it gets sm hype. I don't think that's romantic either and maybe it's js me who thinks this way. How can your life be all about how much you love your partner? Ik that a romantic partner is an important part of life , but why should some people make their life everything about their relationship? Honestly speaking that's ass and i think those typa people need to do some healing. The idea of what love is so messed up . Is love really what the media portrays to be? Why do we have a lot of bias and stereotypes around love? This is so fucked up and i don't think anyone wants to see what love really is . They're all chasing this superficial idea and when we don't find love we come to the conclusion that there's something wrong w us. Some people really need to do neuroplasticity .