i told my boyfriend i wanted to do fall things with him this year and he agreed. i rearranged my plans so that the day we would go was on a day he had off. he says he doesnt have any time to himself anymore and cancels all of our plans to stay home and play video games all fucking day. he would rather play a fucking video game than spend time with me. then he asks if im mad at him. im not even mad, im just frustrated, disappointed, sad and most of all hurt. why cant i be the most important thing to him? why cant he care about me too? hes the most important thing in the world to me. he can say that i am to him but he doesnt act like its true at all. today he told me we would call and do things together. then he says he wants to play a game by himself, so i play with a friend instead. im already frustrated. then he joins us and acts like everything is fine. then he gets bored of us and leaves to play his game by himself. im so unwanted. why