I’m so tired of how I comfort people because anytime someone vents I say “real” or “Omg same” or “yeah” and I just feel like a terrible person after they point it out later (example: saying “hey I don’t really like it when you say real and same when I vent”) then I apologize immediately and I try not to do it but then I end up doing it over and over and I can’t stop and I like I only want to make it about myself which isn’t true and the only reason I do this is because I don’t know how to comfort people because anytime I try everyone seems mad with the way I do it and I don’t know what to do anymore and when I say “I’m sorry I don’t know how to comfort people properly I promise I’m trying my best to” they always just look annoyed or pissed off