I AM SICK OF ALL OF THESE AUTHORITARIAN CULTS IN CHURCH, BUSINESS, GOVT, MANY OTHER SOCIAL GROUPS. LIKE SCHOOLS AND COLLEGES OR NETWORKS. THIS DEMANDING RESPECT AND FORCED POLITENESS IS DUMB REALLY, A FORM OF ABUSE , RESPECT WAS LIKE THE UNSPOKEN LAST BASTION OF HUMAN DIGINITY , NOW THEY POLITICIZE IT , MAKING CIVILITY A AUTHORITIARIAN STATE MILIARTY CONTROL AND WHEN DOES IT BECOME DISTRUSTRUCTIVE AND WHAT I NOTICE IS ALL THESE GROUPS DO A LOT OF CONTFRONTATIONALISM WITH, THIS WORK PLACES TOLERATES ZERO ABUSE, BUT THEY ABUSE THE CUSTOMERS, ITS ALL ONE SIDED. HOW DO YOU FORCE AND DEMAND RESPECT OR POLITENESS OR NICENESS. THE POLICING OF WORDS AND DIALOGUE AND PRIVATE RELATIONSHIPS AND ALL KINDS OF THINGS , IS JUST GOING TOO FAR NOW. WHEN SOME GROUPS DON'T GET RESPECT AND POLITENESS LIKE DISABILITY OR THE POOR AND EVEN SOMETIMES THE AGED. PEOPLE TEND TO FOLLOW THE AUTHORITIARIAN RULES OF NO RACISM AND SEXIST GAY INSULTS BUT MANY DON'T EITHER