I finally confessed to my grandmother as non-binary. I explained it well to her with my mom and we thought she'd understand it and support me, as well as calling me by my proper pronouns. Instead, she treated it as a joke. She pretended to not understand, claiming randomly she was non-binary too. She acted transphobic, and joked rudely about it, Calling me a female multiple times when I told her I was uncomfortable. I was scared, overwhelmed as she laughed and treated my personal opinions like nothing. She talked about my physical appearance too. Saying I had to stay a girl because of it. I've felt sick since the argument. All I want is to distance. I dont feel good anymore. Shes gross and makes me uncomfortable. She had no reason to be rude just for me wanting a little support.