Amber 1 A former coworker, Amber (not her real name, although I do have a past associate that I knew at about the same time named Amber) still lives in my town, I thought she would have moved away years ago because it's a little one main employer berg, not much really going on here. Amber is about 6 foot tall and broad shouldered with wide hips, I imagine at the time she was probably about 250 pounds, she had somewhat of a pot belly. When she first started working at our job as security guards (neither of us work there anymore). Her red hair was really short and honestly I thought it looked awful and unattractive. Over time she let it grow out and once it was long she kept it that way. I don't know when I started to crush on her exactly, but it happened eventually. We frequently worked outside even at night time. One night while working with her and talking to her I started checking out her eyes and realized how beautiful they were and how the outside lights glimmered in her eyes.