This whole thing where adults say that young girls look too "grown" is really creepy to me. It seems like this is mainly said when a girl wear something "conventionally attractive" like having nice hair, or having a clothing style. I have seen multiple videos of adults reacting to something someone posted about their child and saying that the child's clothes are inappropriate. For example I saw this one video of this lady reacting to something someone posted about their childs birthday party and it had a photo attached and instead of this lady going "that looks like a fun birthday" she made a whole ass video talking about the child's clothing being to tight because the girl in the picture had a bigger chest than her friends and how she should cover up more. I think this whole thing contributes to women being made to feel insecure and dirty about their bodies and also contributes to blaming clothing for SA. It's disgusting and creepy.