Am I the asshole for wanting to tell my husband to kick out his female friend and her toddler. I am two weeks postpartum, my baby was born early. Only a day after getting home from the hospital my husband told me his friend (Who is also his ex from middle school) wants to move in with her two year old. I had said no because I’m postpartum and I’m still trying to mentally and physically recover, he said I was being hypocritical because just last year I let my best friend move in for a similar reason. So I said she could move in just to avoid a fight. His friend has a two year old that always cries and it’s messed up my milk supply. She always takes MY baby from me when I’m bonding with him and she doesn’t respect our rules. She gives us no privacy or personal space, which I need in my time of recovery. I want her out of our house but I don’t want to sound rude because he told her we’d help her if she ever needed it.