I hate my relationship life my husbands plays video games and drinks everyday and chats with girls over headphones and messaging, doesn't pay any attention to me or my daughter unless he's drunk we've been together for 16 years I cry all the time I tell him how I feel about it. We have sex like once every 3 months . I'm not turned on by him because of the emotional cheating with his gamer girls , I want to leave him but I can't afford living on my own and we have to many animals for me to take with me in rental units. I don't know what to do anymore I'm so sad all the time , I'm lonely. I try all the time to spend time with him and he just doesn't want to unless I play his dinosaur video game with him . He's 43 I'm 38 I don't want to waate my time on that... I just don't know what to do anymore