I would never do anything to my husband to hurt him but once I found he was doing gay porn I lost it !!! He claimed he was bi and I accepted him because he assured me I would have nothing to worry about. YET HE BETRAYS MY TRUST. I’m hurt i can’t stop thinking about it. I want to have a safe space to talk about it. I never imagined him defiling himself like that ! Or doing the things he was doing. It has traumatized me mentally. I’ve physically been sick to my stomach. Things he’s done disgust me ! There’s a 16 year age gap and that feels like a slap in the face like he manipulated my age and lack of experience in the real world in comparison to him. People that want to make it about sexual orientation are stupid. I never was upset about his sexual orientation! I WAS UPSET WITH HIM ACTING ON IT. Sexual orientation doesn’t define your character. It doesn’t define how genuine a person is or isn’t. I just wanted respect and honesty. We’ve only been married 7 months together for 3yrs