my ex needs me more than ever, but he's also talking to another girl right now and im confused on what he wants. he told me I was perfect before he ruined it all and that somehow I continued to be perfect. I know this sounds crazy but sometimes I feel like he's jealous of me because he's told me so often that all he wants is to be perfect. he feels so much guilt over being overly sexual that he's punishing himself for it by crowding his schedule and being overly hard on himself. he puts on a different person when he's around people because he thinks people won't like him without it. he gets mad when I like other people and he's supposed to be over me and I think im over him but his comment about me being perfect has really stuck with me for some reason. he told me he needs to know he has someone and he feels like im the only person he can talk to. I feel like he still loves me but he feels he doesn't deserve me because im perfect to him he deserves to be happy but he doesnt think so.