People genuinely demonize avoidant individuals because they’d rather praise someone who is willing to do anything to keep someone around (even if that means it causes themselves emotional mental and physical self destruction) than to be okay with some people just having boundaries 💔 yeah it’s a shame they might have led you on or let you down they aren’t ready to date you but why are you acting as if everyone who is avoidant are all the same cold hearted lizard people and can never experience love ??? Hell some anxious attachment individuals may not even feel love towards someone but they’re too deep into the care or kindness someone offers that they instead attach onto them unhealthily and purposefully become dense to the others feelings because they cannot fathom not experiencing that—that is really harmful but hey it’s worse if they just reject you right… And regardless of your experience it does not speak for every single person who’s avoidant 😬 -anxious attachment person