some of you vent so much on here to the point it’s not a coping strategy it’s just an addiction that you truly cannot handle the troubles thrown at you unless everyone else knows about it no offense but of course it’s great to have an outlet, it’s another thing when you complain about every little inconvenience and think that this is the first place you should resort to Some things can be kept inside of our heads it won’t be the end of the world and when some of you use this ritually it just becomes another form addiction, you just got to let everyone know what went wrong now and what else is going to hell, you’re not actually coping you’re just putting more logs into a fire and adding to the flame with each new grievance that comes your way All you really know is to be in pain because that’s how you’re able to be heard and that’s when you get attention but truly this is not the solution where this has to be your first resort for every single thing that happens