I’m gay and I’ve spent a really long time talking to this girl, I Invite her over to hangout with me and my friends and get drunk, and I can’t really remember exactly what happened but at first we were flirting and then I told her I self harm as I was very drunk. I woke up the next day and I can’t find what I use to do it, I’d been avoiding her and eventually she stopped me in the hallway one day and asked me if I was angry, I said no and later texted her to make sure we were okay and now she’s avoiding me.