I'm done chasing after people. If you don't hold up your end of the bargain, that's not on me. and it's not on me to make you feel better about your guilt. and I'm not chasing you to talk. you don't want to talk? that's perfectly fine. but you also can't pull a sad face every time we chat, trying to get me to talk about it first. either you want to talk or you don't. I don't like the emotional manipulation games. not one bit. I've done all i could to show you i care, went out of my comfort zone to compromise with you and what did i get in return? words, but no actions and excuses. Nope. been there before. and people like that don't want to do the work, don't want to make the effort. they will say all the right things and may have the best intentions, but they don't want to do something that requires more effort. they want all results without working to get it done. and i end up doing all the work and shifting MY life to them. not again. never again.