I need advice please. I’m on an off with someone I really love. She is amazing and I feel like it could be something real. We dated for 3 years, being eachothers first, and broke up. the last 4 months we’ve been talking but. She is poly. Dates 2 other people and more. Im okay with it, I really am. But ive been saying for this whole month how I feel about our future. That I want to move in tgthr. Get our degrees and be teachers tgthr. To be more. Im okay with it being poly, im ok with her staying at others houses. I just want to be the one she says is hers and I can say is mine. But she says she can’t do that with me. Im the one she chooses to tell her life to. The one who helps her with college and help her pay to make people gifts and to enjoy life. Am I in the wrong? She says she doesn’t want more than what we are. Am I using what I give her as an excuse to have her stay? I blocked her. Said that it’s not healthy for me, ive told her for 2 months. Am I a bad person? Do I love her?