Why do i feel like my friend never really treated me her friend? Like, she doesn't care about anyone as long as the situation is in her favor. Unfortunately i have been noticing these things about her lately. I just couldn't tell it directly to her. She can easily talk bad about other people she know spilling their secrets or some not so good things they've done but when the sutuation is worse she will immediately act like she was genuine like she she hadn't been talking bad about that person. She always turn the situation to her favor. She really loves being in charge (i mean i think its not bad but its just too much). I really cant say it directly to her because i know if i said things directly to her she would immediately run her mouth telling bad things about me even the pettiest thing at all and would act all innocent about it. She would start saying somethings about a person and then im just there listening yet im the one who got blamed and hated on. Wtf?